
The reality of living with HIV beyond the medical diagnosis
The body as a site of social inscription You are sitting in a chair that was clearly chosen for its neutrality — beige, wipeable, neither

The body as a site of social inscription You are sitting in a chair that was clearly chosen for its neutrality — beige, wipeable, neither

The Intimacy Paradox You have been with this person for four years. You know the sound they make when they are almost asleep, the exact

The Comfort of Familiarity as a Substitute for Intimacy You share a bed with someone you could describe in forensic detail — their sleep position,

The Choreography of Shared Silence You reach for the coffee before she finishes with it, and the timing is so practiced, so unconsciously calibrated, that

The Familiar Stranger Across the Table You pass the salt without being asked. Not because you anticipated a need, not because you were watching, but

The Moral Grammar of Revenge You are sitting across from someone who has just told you, with complete calm, that they hope a terrible thing

The Investigator as a Constructed Identity You have spent years learning to read other people — their hesitations, their microexpressions, the way guilt pools behind

The Visceral Logic of Retribution You have imagined it. Not vaguely, not as a distant fantasy you could disavow — but with specific detail. A

The Body as Ideological Site You are standing in someone’s kitchen, holding a glass of wine you don’t actually want, and the question arrives the

The Body That Remembers Before the Mind Consents You are standing in a grocery store on a Tuesday afternoon, reaching for something ordinary — bread,

The Founding Lie of Intimacy You find the message not because you were looking, but because the phone was there and the name was familiar

The Silence Between Two Bodies in the Same Bed You are lying next to someone who loves you. You know this because they said it
In this video I explain our vision
